
Safe Places
Safe places are designed so the people of God can share their struggles with others in the journey of life. We believe that there are real sin struggles in the lives of our people. The purpose is to create an environment where the beginning of accountability, sharing, and confession can occur.
What is the philosophy?
As it says in the gospel of John, “The word of God [read Jesus] became flesh and made his dwelling among us.” The philosophy of our church recognizes that if Christ comes in the flesh we must be in the flesh with each other. Meaning that Christ initiated with us, identified with us, and invaded us with the gospel of truth. The Safe Places ministry creates a venue where the congregation of MRPC can take off our veneer and initiate with each other the truths of our lives.
We also recognize that Satan has always desired to use isolation and secrets to harm God’s children. Secrecy keeps us isolated from God and others so that we can’t receive the grace that God desires. Confession to each other opens our hearts to the gospel to begin permeating our thoughts (James 5:16). Or as the proverbs say “better is open rebuke than hidden love” and “wounds from a friend can be trusted.”
How do they work? What is the format when I get there?
- Opening Remark and Disclaimers by a pastor or staff person—This will include a brief time of going over confidentiality issues, resources, ground rules for discussion and sharing stories.
- Opening Story and/or Testimony—One member will be prepared to answer three questions: How did this enter your life, Describe your Struggle and Where are you with it currently?
- Open to the group story—The majority of the time is given for others to share their stories if they want to do so. If you would like to remain silent that is fine as well.
- Prayer —There will be a brief time to commit our desires to the Lord.
Topics
We are pleased to announce a new safe place that will be beginning soon: Women with a conflicted relationship with food.
If you are interested in finding out more about these confidential Safe Places meetings, please email safeplacesmrpc@gmail.com right away. This email is received by one pastor only and is strictly confidential. Also, we want to remind you that we have two Safe Places that are already established and open to new people joining them: Pornography (for men) and Parents of Prodigals.
| Abuse Victims (Verbal, Emotional, Physical) | Kleptomania |
| Accepting Grace (Guilt and Shame) | Lying |
| Additiction (Alcohol, Computer, Drugs, etc) | Miscarriages |
| Anxiety and Fear | Not a Christian–Doubt |
| Dealing with Abortion |
Perfectionist/Fear of Failure |
| Death and Grieving |
Prodigal (Children) |
| Depression |
Sexuality (Homosexuality, Adultery) |
| Disease and Illness | Shopping /Consumerism |
| Dysfunctional Families |
Struggle with Forgiveness |
| Eating Disorders |
Thoughts of Suicide |
| Gambling |
Workaholism |
| Feeling Trapped by Life |
Xenophobia |
| Finances and Debt |
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